“One memory can save a life.”
Many of us cherish items that have a rich personal storyline connecting us to another time when we felt safe and that remind us of someone we love. We surround ourselves with these things because they bring us joy; A photograph from long ago. A song sung at the holidays. These things divert our thoughts away from the present. As we reminisce, we are vulnerable to outside influences that can be used to alter our state of mind in ways both good and bad. Rational people understand the difference and how to cope with these feelings, but what about those who have otherwise lost their own free will, have rejected everything and everyone from their previous lives, and who run toward something—anything, really—that will free them from a life they feel trapped inside?
More than 1.6 million children run away each year in America from abusive homes: sexual or physical abuse, bullying or substance abuse. They simply can’t cope. The question then, as a parent, is what can be done to reconnect with these children? How can behavior that drove the children away in the first place be wiped away to start again? Who can be trusted to help? And, perhaps most importantly, what are the consequences of the desperation, anxiety and fear of facing up for the child who does not want to be found?